Irony Defined

Like a line from Alanis Morissette’s Isn’t it Ironic, Donald Trump is threatening to run as an Independent if he doesn’t get his due respect from the GOP.  “Isn’t it ironic….don’t you think?”

He told CNN’s Don Lemon last Wednesday that he’d leave the Republican party if “they don’t treat me with a certain amount of decorum and respect.”  What a dick.  (Ahem….not you Lemon!)  You couldn’t define it any better:

  • He’s always railing on President Obama.  Forget what you think about Mr. Obama’s policies, Trump makes it personal against the man, his family and the office! Disrespects the president.
  • He claims that the Mexican government is sly and cunning, and they send the worst of their people to the US – they send murderers and rapists.  Disrespects Mexicans.
  • Claims that overwhelming majority of violent crimes are committed by blacks and Latinos.  No facts, no data, just his usual blathering bullshit.  Disrespects all Latinos.
  • He mocked the handicapped reporter by flailing his arms and twisting his voice as he ridiculed him. Disrespects handicapped.
  • He mocked the Chinese as he shrugged his shoulders and attempted to distort his face, exclaiming “we want deal.”  Disrespects Asians.
  • He made fun of Senator John McCain claiming that McCain wasn’t a war hero because he was captured – topping it off with “I like people that weren’t captured.”  Disrespects war vets.
  • And women – remember the public feud with Rosie O’Donnell where he called her unattractive and made fun of her size, “….she’s a slob.”  And the first Republican debate with his suggestion that Megyn Kelly must have been on her period because he thought the questions she asked were silly, suggesting that “…blood coming out of her whatever.”  Disrespects women.
  • Most recent, he suggested we close off our borders to all Muslims coming into this country, citizen or otherwise!  Disrespects Muslims.

I can go on, but I’m stopping because it’s time for dinner!

Open note to DJTrump:  You’re no better than any of the individuals or groups that you belittle.  You are a zealot with hatred toward others and you are brainwashing weak people that are falling in line behind you, some out of fear, and some out of desperation. Hmmm…this descriptions sounds sooooo familiar.   Isn’t it ironic….don’t you think?   Respect is earned Trump – it isn’t something you can demand, and you can’t hold us hostage with threats to go run as an Independent.  And as an Independent voter, i resent you thinking we’d have you!  You have overextended your 15 minutes sir, and common-sensed, decent people are tired.

What a difference a year makes…8,760 hours..

It’s been just over a year from my last post where I went on and on about being lazy and getting back to posting entries.  Ha! No more excuses.

The events of recent weeks have had me reeling, from the horrific acts at the Paris nightclub and cafe to the shooting today at the Planned Parenthood clinic in Colorado. WTF is this world coming to?

The taking of any life is difficult to understand so whether it’s the dark-skinned Muslim killing innocent people in a Paris cafe or the pasty-white Christian punk that killed 20 children as they attended school in Newtown, Connecticut – it’s as though the devil walks among us.

This is not a problem with people hijacking any particular religion because as we’ve seen, these cowardly cold-blooded killers come from all backgrounds and their hatred for humanity does not discriminate between black, brown or white, or between Christian, Muslim, Jew, Atheist, Hindu……

Fanaticism does not come from any holy book and it is not something someone is born with.  It’s a mental health problem.  Something happened in the mind of these people and shit went sideways.  I ask you, what do the following have in common:

  • Simultaneous attacks in Paris cafe, soccer stadium and night club killing 130?
  • Aurora, CO movie goers killed while watching Batman movie?
  • Cowardly attack in Newtown, CT elementary school where 26 people were murdered?
  • Attack on bible study class in Charleston, SC where 9 of the attendees are gunned down?


They were all carried out by sick fucks, the devil incarnate, and should be seen as an attack on humanity – not an attack by a single race or religion.

I know….I missed me too!

Thank you to my followers who’ve reached out to see if something was wrong with me, wondering why I haven’t posted to this site in so long. It’s cool mom, I’m okay, just been busy on other things.

Like putting up the most amazing site for sharing stories of random kind acts, check it out here. But mostly, I’ve been busy with work, lots of travel. And if I’m being totally honest, I’ve been a little lazy (and it shows, around my gut!).

And there’s been plenty that has happened in recent months where my mind races and I think of an entry I would have written, if only I had had access to a computer. Lies. I have several computers – a Mac, PC, laptop, iPad, iPhone – so that was never the reason for not writing. (See ‘lazy’ comment, previous paragraph.)

Now that I’m finally off my ass and back to the keyboard, where do I start? Well I’ll figure that out on my own. And mom, say hello to dad – I’ll call tonight.

Bergdahl No Hero

I’m glad Army Sgt. Bowe Bergdahl is alive and coming home to his family, but he should not come home to a hero’s welcome. In fact, he should come home to shame and an inquiry by the Pentagon related to his desertion, or dereliction of duties, or all of the above that led to his creating a dangerous situation for his fellow soldiers then, and now.

When the news of Bergdahl’s release was made the other night, I question aloud about how he went missing. Reminding the people I was with that he had walked away from his duties and was taken. And that the search for him that followed put so many American soldiers in danger as they looked for their colleague, not knowing how or why he was missing. (It wasn’t until later we understood that he foolishly walked away – AWOL – and put so many others at great risk as they went out look for him.) And yes, I got several funny looks and one set of eyes rolled – and that’s okay, because I remember what happened and how it went down.

And now we’ve set precedent for the worst of the bad, that one US soldier alive is worth 5 bad guys from their team. Nice.

So a message to the well-meaning folks of Hailey, Idaho. Put the champagne back on ice and cancel the hero’s-welcome parade. Take down the yellow ribbons wrapped around the old oak tree and go back to your daily lives. Let’s thank God the young man is alive and will see another day with his family. And make sure the young children in town understand that what Bowe Bergdahl did five years ago as part of the United States Army was a huge mistake, and not worthy of their admiration.

#truth #proudAmerican #deserter

Free Speech Grief

Took some good-natured ribbing about my ‘Free as a bird’ post, and that’s okay, because it means you care!

Seriously though, don’t wrap yourself in the American flag and claim to be the grantor of this first amendment right as if we all have to understand it from your myopic perspective.  This phenomenon seems to have really shown itself over the past handful of years as the divide in what makes this country great seems to deepen – happens every year lately around the holidays when some blow hard gets up on his or her pedestal and claims “Christ is the reason for the season!”  (What does that mean anyway?)

First of all, Christmas was a man-made holiday as we don’t really know when Christ was born.  So if someone wants to say “Happy Holidays,” that’s their prerogative, and their right to speak freely as it suits them.  No one is harmed when that statement is made.  And if someone wants to say “Merry Christmas” to everyone they encounter, so be it.  But if your only reason to exclaim “Merry Christmas” is to make a point of some kind or to show that you’re Christian, you’re part of what is wrong with this amazing time of year.

People enjoy the holidays at year’s end for many reasons.  It’s a time of celebration for Christians around the world.  It’s a time for family gatherings for all people, Muslims, Jews, Buddhists, atheists….. ALL people.  For many in this country, it’s because we have time off from work and school and that gives us time to gather, break bread, and reflect.  It means we are spending more time making connections with the people we care about and who care about us.

So if you want to say “Happy Holidays” then do that.  And if you want to wish someone or a group of folks a “Merry Christmas,” then do that as well.  But never tell someone that they have to say “Merry Christmas” because it’s what you think is right for all – just say thank you and watch what happens.  (But be mindful because there are sooooo many people that don’t celebrate Christmas and some may let you know – it’s like if you said “happy Eid” to a group of folks because one of them was Muslim – it means something to that person but not to the rest.  If you hear a “happy holidays” back to your “merry Christmas,” don’t be alarmed and don’t make that stupid face – it’s someone else exercising their free speech.)

That awesome feeling you get deep inside right around December 25th when someone greets you – whether it’s “Happy Holidays” or “Merry Christmas” – with a smile on their face and sincerity in their voice, …… that’s the reason for the season.

That is someone’s right to free speech.  And pretty sure Christ would be pleased.

Free as a bird, unless you’re a duck!

I’m tired of all the righteous pundits and demagogues that screamed about Duck Dynasty patriarch Phil Robertson’s right to free speech after A & E Network sent him on hiatus for several weeks back on December 18th.  Sure, he’s free to say and do what he wants but as a celebrity in the public eye, he needs to use great care knowing that everything he says and does will be scrutinized.

There is no difference in the poor choice of words he made during his interview with GQ than the poor choice made by MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry and her comments about Mitt Romney’s family portrait.  Just as Robertson’s comment was not directly about gays and homosexuals, Harris-Perry’s was not directly about the young black child.

Robertson used a poor choice of words while making a valid point – he said “we never, ever judges someone on who’s going to heaven or hell…” and went on to say that God sorts that out later.  I totally agree with his comment.  But it’s what he said next in the same breath that had some folks all excited, “whether they’re homosexuals, drunks, terrorists. We let God sort ’em out later…”

His point was that regardless of what someone does that goes against organized religion, his isn’t to pass judgement because that role belongs to God Almighty.  What some people saw was that he lumped homosexuals in with drunks and terrorists.  Harris-Perry was mocking the lack of diversity in the Republican party, which really is low-hanging fruit – and likewise, I totally agree with her point. But joking along with her colleagues about the baby marrying Kanye West’s daughter one day and the Romneys and Wests being in-laws – not cool.

What’s bothersome though is that the blow-hard pundits who took issue with A&E’s handling of Robertson wanted MSNBC to fire Harris-Perry – none afforded her the benefit of free speech.  And therein lies the lesson.

Free speech is a misnomer because we have an obligation as an intelligent, morality-bound society to use care with what we say and when.  What we say, write or do affects others, period.  Now go, and stop hanging on my every word – I choose mine carefully before I sat to post this because the pen truly is mightier than the sword!

“Please, don’t let it be a Muslim…”

Yes, a common thought that runs through my mind and that of many Muslims around the world whenever some horrible criminal act is committed, especially to one of my fellow  Americans.  It shouldn’t be that way, but it is, thanks to the monsters that attempted to hijack my peaceful religion back on 9/11/2001.  And for all you haters, yes, Islam is a peaceful religion, as is Judaism and Christianity before it – and like those before it, each had a way of dealing with non-believers that doesn’t seem very nice by today’s standards.  (Familiar with the many crusades that lasted hundreds of years led by popes and borne from the pages of the bible?)  I digress.

On edge since the horror in Boston several weeks ago, when two idiot brothers did the unthinkable as they set out to injure and kill innocent people.  Wondered then, like the many times before 9/11 when acts of terror were committed, what makes a person want to hurt or kill another living creature?

Then it happened again over the past few days: terror-struck and I silently prayed, “don’t let it be a Muslim that committed these horrible acts.”

An 8-year old girl was stabbed to death Saturday in her home in northern California and the killer is still at large.  What kind of monster would reign terror on a community with such an act?  There are over 100 police involved in this manhunt and I pray they find those responsible soon.

Mass at an Albuquerque, NM church had just ended yesterday when a 24-year old whack job jumped the pews and raced toward the choir with intent on injuring and killing innocent people.  Lawrence Capener stabbed 4 people before he was stopped by quick-thinking parishioners.  Thank God that monster was stopped!

And of course, the ricin-lacing mess out of Mississippi that had me wondering who would want to expose our president and other officials to something lethal like ricin — who would want these people dead?  We now know it wasn’t the Elvis impersonator and that some knucklehead, James Dutschke from Tupelo, Mississippi is believed to be the terrorist.  And again, in silence, “please don’t let him be Muslim.”

And these are the terror cases in the past several days that got national attention — forget the many muggings, murders, car jacks, and so on, that terrorize neighborhoods all over this country every day.  It’s a disgrace but I admit, I like what the media is doing.

The media, along with many of our brave politicians (whom are seated high above the fray and love this approach), are reporting and expounding on the ethnicity and religious affiliation of these perverted beings.  Not saying I agree with this practice of reporting out the purported religious background of those that bring terror into our lives, but what the heck, the balls been rolling since 2001, so let’s do it — let’s keep score of these monsters. I know it increases hate crimes as the ignorant among the masses get riled and want to go out and do harm to others, but what a small price to pay I suppose.  (Okay, haters going out and terrorizing a group based on color of skin, ethnicity or religious beliefs.  Having trouble shaking off the irony of it all.)

If you haven’t detected my tounge-in-cheek post by now then you’ve missed my point entirely.  Seriously?  Do we really want to keep track of and report on the ethnic and religious background of all people who bring terror into our lives?  That’s a ridiculous suggestion and a foolish suggestion. Then why is it acceptable when the criminal is a Muslim?